November 19, 2014

Hectic is Perfect

I think there is an assumption that marriages are perfect. And maybe they can be for some – the perfect jobs, house, pets, children, cars – the list goes on. But what makes my marriage so wonderful and perfect for is this hectic thing we call life. For my husband and I, hectic IS perfect – because that means we are living our life and living it together.

Would we want a romantic date night once a week? Sure! Does it happen? No, but what we do love is our nightly routine of a quiet dinner catching up on TV. Yep, there it is – our romantic evening! But for us, it’s so perfect. To sit and share our day, toss back a glass of wine and relax is the perfect evening. We do love our random date nights though and, to be honest, we need one soon! Life happens and we’re constantly paying the bills, seeing friends, seeing family, being spouses and it’s hard sometimes!

 But in the end, it’s this hectic-ness that brings us together and makes us a good team. Life has always been busy. Not just lately. I feel like everyone adds the word lately to busy like it is some sort of excuse. I don't feel guilty or the need for an excuse. I love my life with my husband hectic or calm.

Aww. He is so cute!
Have a great weekend!


  1. You basically described me and my boyfriend! Hah. Our romantic nights also include dinner, wine and TV. :) And we're just about due for a date night. Life has just been so crazy lately.

  2. that is definitely something! We've had one date night in the past two years, but earlier this year we made a deal that every friday and/or saturday would be movie night,


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